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Necessity breeds invention....or something along those lines

October 6th, 2009 at 03:24 pm

So, I am feeling soooo much better today than I felt on Sunday. I spoke with my bf about my concerns, and he wants me to depend on him more, and to not also worry that I may be asking for more than he can handle, etc. It made me realize that while I may have asked for help, I would acquiece or downplay the help I needed if I felt he was having a lot of problems around paying the bill that his family had to pay. We again discussed the date he will give me the money, and I am feeling a lot better now.

My relative wants to help me out with the expenses of visiting them.....I feel weird taking them up on their offer, and yet, it costs about....$30 per trip when i visit them.

I have been focusing on simple pleasures---like putting more emphasis on taking care of my hair, doing my nails, nice smelling (but not expensive) perfume, bubble baths, that kind of thing. I think it helps me out a lot mood wise.

3 Responses to “Necessity breeds invention....or something along those lines”

  1. ceejay74 Says:

    Maybe you could agree to let your relative pay for every other visit? That way you split the costs.

    Great job taking care of yourself! Little things can make a big difference.

  2. LuxLiving Says:

    You sound much happier!

  3. north georgia gal Says:

    I agree that the little things like taking care of yourself really help. I realized the other day that I have really let my wardrobe go. So I have started to keep my eyes open at the consignment shop to update it. I also try to make sure that I actually dry my hair instead of letting it dry...it makes a huge difference!

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